A week after our marriage, he told me about his other woman

Dear Diana,
I tied the knot in December 2010. It was an arranged marriage. A month after my wedding, I came to know that my husband has been having an affair with another woman for the past two years. He got married to me due to parental pressures. He had the cheek to tell me this a week after our nuptials. At the same time, he told me that I could remain in his house as not many people are aware of his illicit affair. I have already told his family about it but they are not at all sympathetic. Now I am living with my parents and my husband is not concerned about me. He has not even bothered to tell me whether he wants me or not. Should I leave him?
-u00a0LG

Dear LG,
This guy has taken you for a ride and how! He has not only lied to you and betrayed your trust in him but he also married you and is now left you to fend for yourself. It was an arranged marriage, didn't your folks check on his credentials before fixing the match? Do not go back to him, there is no point as he has declared that he is unfaithful to you and will remain so. Hire a lawyer and file a case against him. He has cheated you as well as deserted you. It will be a tough fight but you will have to go through this. You have to realise what he has done to you. He messed up your life, it is time you take legal recourse to secure justice for you. You will need lots of strength to go through all this but this man and his family need to be taught a lesson for messing up your life. And your folks will have to rally behind you in this fight.

My girl believes in threesomes

Dear Diana,
The girl I love also likes another guy from our circle of friends. She tells me that she likes both of us equally. I think she's crazy and I want to dump her. Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?
-u00a0Name withheld on request

Dear Friend,
Unless you believe in threesomes, this girl is definitely not for you. As you said she's crazy alright. She can't love both of you'll equally. It is a tough call. Tell her to choose who she wants to be her partner. If she still can't, it's better to let go of her.

I love a married man

Dear Diana,
I am 45 and married with two kids. I am in love with a man of my same age who is also married and has three children! We love each other dearly and meet on the sly. He calls me several times and our conversations can go on and on. Do you think this relationship will work? He tells me whom you love you don't marry and whom you marry you don't love.u00a0
- AT

Dear AT,
He's giving you a big hint. He is using you alright for his sexual cravings and you are allowing him to do so. As it is both of you are married and are playing with fire. What if your spouses come to know about your dangerous liaisons? Have you bothered to think about it? It is better that both of you go your ways and end your relationship immediately. You are playing with red hot lava and will get scarred so badly which will also affect your families. You have gone astray, make amends fast. Both of you are cheating on your partners. You are having an extra-marital affair nowu00a0-- stop it immediately.