I keep falling for married women

As a result, I can't go ahead and do anything about my love life. I don't have a preplanned strategy to feel attracted towards committed womenfolk. It just happens. Perhaps it's karma. On top of this, my mother is looking for a girl to get me married.
- Jayprakash

Illustration/ Satish Acharya

Dear Jayprakash,
It could be that the women you have been attracted to are married. It may be due to the fact that you are surrounded more by women who are married rather than single, so you keep falling for them. Why don't you start mingling more with single girls? I am sure you will feel an attraction towards them. I know that there is no gameplan of you falling for such women. It may be that you are initially unaware that they are hitched. Also, you are only 26 so it is not that you will not find a woman. Relax, my dear. And just because of your past, don't feel that you will only fall for married women. Keep your options open.u00a0