06 May,2009 12:56 PM IST | | Amit Kumar
A college mate remembers Dr Farooq Abdullah who entrusted him with son-in-law Sachin Pilot
Former Jammu and Kashmir chief minister Farooq Abdullah was sitting on a high chair on a dais where everyone else was sitting on the floor when, like a whiff of fresh air, a visiting card arrived. He read the card and a smile followed.
It was from a college mate.A courteous "adaab" was exchanged after which the burly politician asked his friend to join him on the dais.
Class of '55: Dr Abdullah with college mates at the Golden Jubilee of Jaipur Medical College in 2007. Dr Udai Bhanu Jain (encircled) is also included in the frame |
For the fear of ragging we did not take hostel and started living in a rented accommodation near the college. However, our seniors encouraged us to join the hostel and we got away with some very mild ragging. Actually it was not like what happens these days.
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Ragging was very civil in our times. In fact, our seniors used to sit with us and have tea at the college stall to make us comfortable.
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Though Farooq was the son of a great politician he used to live with us in the ordinary hostel. We also ragged our juniors but it happened with decency.
Farooq was a very pleasant company, used to joke often.
There was no affair to remember yet, Farooq with his great personality and looks, was a charmer. Many girls of our college were after him. Again, it was all very courteous and civil. There were no sexual overtones to relationships like it happens today.
There were friendships and affairs but we knew our limits. We never indulged in drinking or eve-teasing. Farooq was an average student but he was a great orator.
He used to participate in debates and won many admirers. He left the college soon after graduation in 1960 as he had to carry forward the legacy of his father, the great Sheikh Abdullah.
He is still his old self warm and friendly. It was our third meeting since we left college. He told me to take care of Sachin and said that he had asked Sachin to ask me if he needs any help in Ajmer.
Now, it is my responsibility to take care of him. He has promised me to come over to my place with Sachin for dinner the next time he visits Ajmer.