I am in a relationship with a super guy and we are madly in love with each other. He is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with and I am the woman for him
Dear Diana,
I am in a relationship with a super guyu00a0 and we are madly in love with each other. He is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with and I am the woman for him. We met through common friends three years ago. Two weeks ago, his office guys transferred him to Aurangabad which is too far away to visit everyday from Mumbai. We have been talking on the phone and SMSing. But the physical distance is making our relationship go for a toss. I have started getting moody and irritable because of this. What should I do?
-u00a0TK
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Dear TK,
My dear, I can truly understand what is going on in your mind. As it is only two weeks since he has gone, it will take a time for you to adjust to the new scenario. Gradually over time you will get used to not seeing him everyday. Remember a lot of people are in au00a0 long-distance relationship and it needs plenty to sustain. You will have to contend with it. I am sure when he comes down, you will want those moments to be very special. It's up to you to make your relationship stronger by remaining faithful to each other.
Should I hang out with him?
Dear Diana,
I am 19. There is this boy whom I like but when I go out with him I get confused and upset. I wonder if I should befriend him or not. He is nice to me though. Sometimes I tell him I don't want to go out with him. He then goes out with some of our common friends. I feel very jealous then. What do I do?
-u00a0Aashna
Dear Aashna,
My dear girl, how confused can you get? For starters why don't you try to be his friend, instead of angling to be his girlfriend? It will save you the heartache and headache that follows. When you go out with your guy, you should enjoy his company, not worry whether he should be your friend or not. If you don't enjoy his company, it is better to let go off him. It is better to distance yourself from him then.
My brother creates such a mess
Dear Diana,
I am 15 years old and share my room with my brother who is 19. The problem is that as he is older, he gets away with anything. The other day he got his friends over and made such a mess of the room and left. I had to clear the stuff as I can't live in a mess. Why does my mother not tell him anything. Why is she so partial to him?
-u00a0Hamza
Dear Hamza,
There is no point cribbing about the situation. Why don't you tell your mother what he did? O am sure she will understand. It is just that your brother is a bit older to you so can boss over you. Next time don't clear the room and let it remain the way he had left behind. When he comes home tired, he will realise what it is to stay in a mess. As you have been doing Operation Clean Ups, he has been having a field day. Stop being his broom, let him pick up the broom himself.
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