According to me, my boyfriend only wants a physical relationship with me.
Dear Diana,
According to me, my boyfriend only wants a physical relationship with me. We have been together for the last three years. He tells me I have a stone of heart and not romantic in nature at all. That the fire and passion is missing in me. Whenever we meet he wants to get into the act immediately! I agree that I am not romantic and don't express my feelings as openly as he does. Sometimes the matter goes out of control and we quarrel and don't talk to each other for days. Is there a way out?
-- Jasmine
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Dear Jasmine,
Your man is the typical guy who always has sex on his mind! You really like him but he is more interested in a physical relationship than getting to know you. It's fine if you feel the same way, but you don't -- that's the problem. Ask yourself this question: does he really like you, too? Or is it just that physical satisfaction. In most such cases such guys are not looking for a long-term relationship. Tell him to respect your feelings, too, as you respect his. If he relents, he likes you but if he is adamant about his behaviour, you may want to consider moving on to a guy who's more interested in being with you rather than just having a physical relationship.
I am 27, she is 35...
Dear Diana,
I am in a love with a 35-year-old woman. I am 27. We work at the same place. She is single and was totally focussed on making a career; the reason why marriage was never on her mind. We intend getting married but my folks think her biological clock is ticking and having kids would be an issue which would affect our marriage. What do I do?
-- Name withheld on request
Dear Friend,
She may be 35 but you love her and are sure about your relationship so go forth. There are several women nowadays marrying only after the age of 30 and having kids after 35. Look around and you will find people having older wives or women marrying much older guys. She may be 35 and her biological clock may be ticking but every woman's pregnancy is unique and different. Don't worry too much about it. First marry, think about having a child after that.
Should I dial his number?
Dear Diana,
I met this extremely charming guy at a bash and he swept me off my feet. We hung out together throughout the party. And at the end even exchanged phone numbers. He called me after a day saying how exhausted he was after the all-night party and that he had a bad hangover. He said he would call me after a day. It has been a week now and he hasn't called. Should I dial his number and check what's happening on his front?
-- Francy
Dear Francy
May be he became really sick, or may be he hasu00a0 plain forgotten about you or may be he does not feel the need to. It could be either of the three reasons. If you really dig him, dial his number. Looks like you have fallen for him already, right? You have a good excuse to call him. Tell him that you were just wondering how he was feeling as he sounded very sick on the phone last. Tell him there was something wrong you feel in the chicken tikka which both of you over ate. If he is interested in you, he will listen to you and call you again. If he does not, he is not interested; he was happy to give you company only for that night.
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